Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits (Proverbs [18:21])

How many adults still feel the sting of angry words they heard as children? And how many of us have said words we later regret? The tongue has the power to destroy. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs [18:21]a). A few words can do vast damage. “So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire” (James 3:5)!

Yet the tongue also has the power to enrich and edify. Our words can build up and bless those we love. Consider the kinds of words that should flow from the mouths of Christ-followers.

1. Words of affection. Over and over in our homes, the words “I love you” should be spoken—from husband to wife, from wife to husband, from parents to children, from children to parents. Giving voice to our appreciation for those we love is a powerful way to encourage.

2. Words of reconciliation. Our planet is home to zero perfect people. We are all fallen, not just in principle but also in practice. Those closest to us know our flaws most clearly. Thus we can’t fail to say these life-giving words: “I’m sorry. I was wrong. Please forgive me.”

3. Words of vision. When we speak words of vision over our children, we give them a glimpse of how effective their lives can be. “You will do something great with your life,” and “God is going to use your life in a cool way,” and “You can make a difference in this world.” Words of vision build hope and confidence.

Written by James MacDonald
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One thought on “SPEAK UP!

  1. That is so true! We have all said things we regret having said. Sometimes it is just better to listen than to open your mouth.

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